Today's outfit took inspiration from my casual lounging wear. Last night, upon returning home from dinner, I changed into PJ pants and a long-sleeved shirt that I basically only wear around the house (it had also been hiding in my parents' house for months and months, so I was recently reunited with said shirt). Loving how the shirt looked and exulting in being able to wear it again, I decided to indeed wear it again today, outside of the house, with a bright contrasting color. This is the result:
Despite the minimal waist-definition of this outfit, I was super-comfy (albeit cold) today (don't worry: I added a sweater, gloves, scarf, and heavy down jacket. It didn't help.). The shirt is from India, a gift from a severely unsuitable ex-boyfriend (well, one of them). He gave it to me when we first got together, my first year of grad school. He had recently returned from a sort of reunion tour of India (he had been sent to school there as a child) and had amassed a lot of clothes/jewelry/handicrafts to keep and to give to friends. I never knew if this shirt was actually his or one of his unworn souvenirs, but I loved it immediately and wore it all through my summer in India later that year, as a beach cover-up in Greece a few years later, and, in more recent years, as a home-relegated top (some of the stitches are unravelling). What I love about this shirt is the simplicity: it's just an off-white tunic, with red stitching at all of the borders and a lovely simple neckline.
When I paired it with the colorful corduroy leggings and the shell necklace, I felt like a sort of cool, hippie artist - a sculptress, perhaps? Too bad I'm not at all creative in the visual arts realm.
... I don't know, though, if my cool alter-ego would've approved of the boots. Surely she would've lived in a WARMER climate and gone barefoot. Hmmm...
White tunic: gift from ex-boyfriend, from India
Teal corduroy leggings: HUE, by way of Lord and Taylor, remixed
Grey boots: Frye Paige Huarache, by way of endless.com, remixed
Ah the severely unsuitable ex-boyfriend. Every girl needs at least one.
ReplyDeleteYou look lovely and very sculptress-esque indeed! I can't seem to get warm either, it just that kind of day!
Indeed. Indeed. I mean, there were so many things wrong with this guy (at least in relation to me) that I could make a stand-up routine about it. Now THAT's an idea!
ReplyDeleteAt my age, I've been thinking about former boyfriends. One is in a federal penitentiary. Another is running for office. And a third will deliver the keynote address kicking off this semester. I think I may duck out of that meeting.
ReplyDeleteOh, the past boyfriend gifts. I have never known how to feel about these things that we get from men we are no longer with. Personally, I have a hard time wearing them, but I still do. Do you feel the same or is it no big thing for you? (Well, I guess "severely unsuitable ex-boyfriend" tells all)
ReplyDeleteI think it's so nice that you can have a stash of clothes somewhere else and dip into them every now and again. Lucky!
--Loving the new hoops and necklace too!
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Wow, Terri, I got nothing on you. The only funny thing I can say about this particular ex is that he was kiiiiiiind of a cult member.
ReplyDeleteAnd Miss B, I actually tend to have no problem with wearing exes' stuff. This shirt I used to wear so often that I kind of have no feeling about it except for slight gratitude toward the ex for passing it on to me. On the other hand, my really serious college/grad school boyfriend gave me some nice jewelry that I wear sparingly and I don't feel weird about it. When I first met the husband, he told me that he would hate to think that his ex didn't wear jewelry he had given her just because it was from him and I thought that was a mature way of dealing with it. On the other hand, there is something from the college ex that I never ever wear because it embodies a political stance that, while I agree with it, I don't want to be that vocal about in this particular environment. Plus, it's such an obvious object (a scarf) that it would be a little too much in my husband's face, y'know? I don't know. I'm rambling - I guess I just go for the "in moderation" guideline!
That's a beautiful tunic, and I'm glad you still wear it!
ReplyDeleteI am a total scrooge about presents and refused to accept any that were not books or food from ex-boyfriends. What a pain in the ass girlfriend I must have been.
Ha! Rad, that's hilarious. I will admit that this ex also gave me a couple of books that I still treasure more than the cult-y piece of jewelry he once gave me...
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